50 Shades of Grey

The much much much awaited movie is finally scheduled to air next year.
*as i recall parts of the novel while penning this down, i'm already feeling all hot and flustered.*
HAHA.

Anyways, to the unknown (man especially) who thinks that we are reading porn, this is why ladies love love lovvvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeeee christian-oh-my-fxxking-goodness-sex-symbol-grey.

1. Powerful hero. "He is dark, mysterious, and possibly dangerous -- a total Alpha male. He's wild, dangerous and unpredictable. Being with him is like a roller coaster ride."

2. Awakened Heroine. "She is innocent. She is the yin to the yang of Christian Grey. She is a young woman awakened by this man who knows a lot more. "

3. Christian Grey uses all the senses -- taste, touch, sight, scent, sound. "For example, Ana is always talking about how he smells and he about her scent. He also consciously uses these different triggers to arouse her."

4. Music is huge part of it. There are many musical moments in the book that inspire erotic or emotionally charged moments.

5. He appeals to her psychologically. "He sends signals to throw her off-balance, such as his first gift of the collector's edition of Tess of the d'Urbervilles. He attached a quote from the book that says there may be danger waiting. It creates more intrigue for her and she is intrigued by him."

6. There is stimulation of all the erogenous zones and multisensory anticipation. "Christian does it with such expertise, and so much foreplay, with plenty of time to get Anastasia ready."

A. Primary erogenous zones. Genitals and breasts.
B. Secondary erogenous zones: Earlobe, neck.
C. Tertiary erogenous zones: Feet, arms, scalp.

7. BDSM. "The book has opened up the door a crack to things people may not have considered before. In Fifty Shades, Ana has many fears about being hurt, but when she is in the red room of pain she is not just in pain -- she is in a state of arousal beyond what she would normally feel. Sexual arousal sometimes involves working with negative emotions such as fear and anxiety. It's the experience of being on a roller coaster that enhances the state of arousal."

8. Love. "Ana pushes for 'more' than being his submissive and he 'tries' because he will do anything to keep her. He's only had subs [submissive female partners] before, women that he has controlled, and he is pushed to his hard limits by Ana who is demanding more. That's what people love about the book. They want the romance, the emotional tension. Will it work out for them? They want to know!"

9. The experience of being desired. "This is a huge erotic trigger for women. It's the experience of being that special someone. There is no one else in his eyes. He only has eyes for her. She is the one he longs for. It combines the erotic with the sensual. Being desired is such a turn on for women."

10. He's very loyal. "At first we are not sure if we can trust him. She talks about his 'stalker tendencies.' What wins Ana over, and wins the reader over, is he's very loyal. And when she needs him, he's there. I think it works because women can feel the fantasy of having that danger, with the security of having a good relationship."

Cooper's analysis made perfect sense to me in both understanding what the character Anastasia experienced and how the readers, too, took that roller coaster ride into the kinky romance and the psychologically intrigue. The idea that women can experience the fantasy with Ana, yet view it from the safety of their own relationships, also explains the appeal of the books.

The concept of "erotic triggers" can be very helpful in relationships, in general. InFifty Shades of Grey, here are some of the ways those triggers kept Ana, and the reader, in a state of anticipation:

• Sound: "You are mine," he whispers, "only mine. Don't forget it." His voice is intoxicating, his words heady, seductive." (Page 119, Fifty Shades of Grey, E.L. James)."

• Sight: "A slow, sexy smile spreads across his lovely face, and I am rendered speechless as my insides melt. He is without a doubt the most beautiful man on the planet, too beautiful for the little people below, too beautiful for me (page 370, Fifty Shades of Grey, E.L. James)."

• Touch and Scent: "He runs the tips of his finger down my cheek. Oh my. His proximity, his delicious Christian smell. We're supposed to be talking but my heart is pounding, my blood singing as it courses through my body, desire pooling, unfurling... everywhere. Christian bends and runs his nose along my shoulder and up the base of my ear, his fingers slipping into my hair (page 427, Fifty Shades of Grey, E.L. James)."

Article extracted from : HuffingtonPost

Woman are about all senses whereas man (mostly) are about sight. And so christian fulfilled that fantasy. Not to mentioned that he is filthy wealthy, overly protective (that's just probably me. I'm weird like that.) and drop dead gorgeous (or how ever our imaginations portray him to be).

Very much anticipating for the trailer to be out tomorrow!
Till then! Keep you legs crossed ladies!

Ciao!